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I’ve Spent Years on the Fence About Having Kids, But Now I Know
"I wasn’t sure if I really wanted a screaming-laughing-pooping tiny human or if I...I’ve Stopped Caring About my Friends’ Opinions of my Partners – Why You Should, Too.
The assumption that our girl friends are the best and only people to decide...I’ve Been Single for 18 Years – and Honestly, I Feel Isolated
"I want my partnered friends to admit that they'd be devastated if this were...#singlelife /
Relationships
Dating Apps and The End of Humanity
"With each download of the apps, I manage to delude myself that this time...#singlelife /
Relationships
Create Your Intentional Dating Plan to Find Love and Protect Your Sanity (PDF Worksheet)
"This worksheet helped me define what I'm looking for in a relationship, how slowly...Wokefishing: The Political (And More Pathetic) Catfish
"He told me he is actually conservative and works for the RNC, not the...Don’t Date Me for Social Justice Brownie Points
"Queer dating in the south is already tough; add on blackness, and you open...The Realities Of Interracial Dating We Need To Start Talking About
In 2018, it feels surprising that dating outside of one’s race is still an...#singlelife /
Relationships
How I Discovered I’m Polyamorous While In A Monogamous Relationship
Polyamory doesn’t fix the pre-existing problems in your monogamous relationships. Things like poor communication,...Why I Won’t (Read: Can’t) Hook Up With You
Vaginismus can be physical, psychosomatic, or a combination of both. But, no matter the...Why I Stand By The Fat Fetish Community
I was in the 10th grade the first time I heard the term “fat...I Know God Still Loves Me (Even If I Have Sex)
Growing up as a Muslim woman, I had a hard time figuring out what...#singlelife /
Health
How to Make a Dildo in Prison: Getting Off Without Getting Arrested Inside A Canadian Penitentiary
As former honor roll student and pretty successful business owner, I knew that I...Is There Stalkerware On Your Phone Right Now? Here’s How To Check
Stalkerware is a malicious form of spyware that allows an external user to access,...Self Love & Climate Change: Why I Married Myself Amidst The Crisis
"What we’re going into is dark and I’d like to enjoy myself in this...#singlelife /
Relationships
The Anti-Ghost: How To End A Casual Relationship Like The Classy Bitch You Are
TV shows drag on forever without a resolution, our twitter feeds scroll on and...#singlelife /
Relationships
I’m Only Having Group Sex From Now On
Recently, I came to a big realization: I only want threesomes and orgies. No...Cheap Thrills: The Allure of Exclusive Dating Apps
The idea of an app that carefully curates prospects—everyone’s a ten!—is undeniably appealing, even...Amber Rose’s Guide To Taking A Fire Nude
If you’ve ever found yourself lying on your bed with your back painfully arched,...Can We Stop Making My Virginity Such A Big Deal?
This language of “loss” to describe this form of intimacy has unconsciously affected how...What I Learned Being Out as Intersex on Dating Apps
Being intersex and navigating hook up apps geared mainly towards cisgendered people is tricky.#singlelife /
Relationships
A 2019 Guide to Fuckbois
Fuckbois don't do clear, they are instead notoriously known for never telling you how they...#singlelife /
Body Positivity
Seeing Other Fat Girls Online Is Helping Me Have Better Sex
"My self-acceptance journey can literally be traced back to Tumblr — a magical blog-space...#singlelife /
Body Positivity
Why I Take Sexy Photos of My Native Body
"These are my first sexy photos with this body. I’m coming out with this...#singlelife /
Kink
Old-Fashioned Phone Sex: How to Get Kinky Without Pics
Despite the popularity of camera phones and Skype, phone sex is still a...#singlelife /
Relationships
Being Hot and Fat: La’Shaunae Steward
"Every time a fat woman is naked or scantily clad on the internet, men...Learning To Love Sex Again After I Had My Baby
"Mainly, I felt vulnerable because I didn't feel at home in my body. The larger...Amber Rose’s Guide To Easing Into Anal
"Ass play can be intimidating, especially for a newbie. But there’s no reason to...My Boyfriend Left Me For Another Man and Here’s What I Learned
The night I met my ex, I was all but stranded at a foreign...#singlelife /
LGBTQIA+
Trans Dating: The Pegging Perplexion
Transwomen are often regarded as tenacious temptresses who are confident and cunning. What most...#singlelife /
Relationships
Cut-and-Paste Texts For Establishing Boundaries
Personally, dating in NYC has been a breeze! Kidding, it’s a total night terror.#singlelife /
Health
When a Crush Becomes an Obsession – How to Keep Yourself in Check
When does new relationship energy and excitement cross the line into obsession? And how...Inner Hoe Uprising: Reclaiming “Hoe” and Representing Black Women and Non-Binary Folks
Queefing, sexuality doulas, women in the Black Panther Party, signing up to have your...The Infinite Swipe: Are Gamified Dating Apps Warping Our Perceptions?
"They had a steady job and were polite, funny, and smart. But after our...#singlelife /
Parenthood
Navigating Genetic Sexual Attraction with my Biological Father
I twirled, alone in my apartment in Cambridge Square. Cell phone wedged to...6 Signs He’s Co-opting The Movement to Get Laid
As it slowly dawns on men that women want dudes who support the basic...I’m Sick Of Being Eroticized By “Woke” Dudes
It usually goes like this: I’m out with friends, laughing it up like...How My Fab Fashion Weeds Out Misogynists
"These guys are all about having wild sex whilst I wear my wild clothes,...#singlelife /
Relationships
Explicit Consent Makes For Really Sexy Dirty Talk
Asking for and giving consent doesn't have to be an awkward interruption during a...#singlelife /
Relationships